One year of dating
That aside, I guess you are already travelling down the road where you are hurting yourself by asking about the next step.Perhaps you told yourself that you would let it ride for a year and see where you stand with this man. The answer to your question of whether you should continue to develop a relationship with him is to ask yourself another question. Sorry OPYou are old enough to care about the future, young enough to waste some time, and you’re willing to move ahead and he is not.Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...We said we loved each other last month for the first time. My question is the other day i asked if he wants to spend the rest of his life with me?and he responded that he tends not to look that far down the road. Then yestereday i explained I wanted our lives to be more together, and he stated it was what he could do at the present time, Are my expectations to high?I would rather save 'comfortable' for the one I stay with. Sorry to sound simplistic, but you either have to accept that's what he thinks and how he feels or decide that you don't want to invest anymore of your life with him without some type of assurance that you will eventually have what you want with him.There isn't any timetable or agenda that is universally acceptable, two people determine what works for them or decide to be with someone else.
There is no setting a time for an answer because that would be considered an ultimatum.Like you I am with someone and am here also, for the forums because of the company I get and the wisdom and the laughs.