Im dating a single father
When my daughter was younger and feeling down or insecure she would crawl into my lap. It’s as if all those things that were weighing on her left her shoulders. Then I would tell her I loved her and she would always let out a deep relaxing exhale.When your daughter does come to you and discusses personal issues and problems, she needs to know that you will treat them with respect and confidence.They shouldn’t become dinner-table conversation with the rest of the family.The first thing to do when you find yourself attracted to a shy man is to question your feelings for him.In other words, ask yourself "Am I attracted in spite of or because of his shyness? A very close friend of mine is extremely shy, and I know plenty of other guys that are shy. Shy guys, almost by definition, do not have the balls to initiate and pursue women.Whether she wants to play or just enjoys watching the games, become an enthusiastic fan and supporter!
Unconditional love requires that a daughter knows no matter how badly she messes up, her father will be there, not to ridicule and demean but to forgive." If you answer these questions sincerely and still want to date him, you then face the problem of making it happen - or rather, making him make it happen. They fall outside of the predator-prey model for sexual interactions that is assumed in the "don't initiate contact" rule.So it is acceptable for you to initiate with a shy guy. The problem with male shyness is that it wears off in specific situations.At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex.
A post I made about why women shouldn't take the initiative in relationships evoked some questions about how to deal with shy men - after all, shy men don't chase women, and are unlikely to initiate anything.If a girl doesn't approach or initiate contact with a shy man, nothing will happen.