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Don't be FWBs with an ex you are still emotionally attached to, or someone that you are secretly in love with, as it will make you miserable. There aren't really great ways to test for these viruses, a huge percentage of the population already have them, condoms don't 100% protect against them, and it's possible to be asymptomatic your entire life. This kind of situation can breed competition and drama, and I don't enjoy being told what I can and can't do with by a fuckbuddy's insecure girlfriend.
The perfect FWB is a sexy person who is not boyfriend material. Text their name and license plate number to a friend, set up a safe call, let your trick KNOW you have a safe call. That said, be upfront if you know you've got an STI, get the vaccine and regular pap smears, and don't fuck anyone who is clearly having an outbreak of something. And don't be a dumbass -- if you know your FWB is going to be at a party with someone else, bring your own date so you don't feel like a super awkward third wheel. Take a tip from Suze Orman: diversify your cock portfolio. Anyone who judges you for having fun is probably jealous because you're getting laid way more often than they are.
Whether you like it or not, the two of you are going to get very close, very fast: it’s inevitable and irresistible (if you’re normal)—only the sociopathic seem capable of resisting its siren song.
The trade off is you have no obligation to answer their call at 3 a.m./perform sex acts you're not into/lend them . This is why it's good to have several fuckbuddies -- if one goes AWOL for a while, you have a back up or three. (Though, let's be real here, the GPS location services of many apps are sketchy at best.) There are apps for all kinds of sexualities ranging from casual hookups to specific fetishes. Go for it — heck, why not do it anonymously while you're at it; app, you can smile proudly to yourself knowing you've found love (or lust) in a rather not-hopeless place.