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This is so true, and it doesn’t stop in the 30s, either.I’ll be 42 in a couple of weeks, and in two years of online dating, I’d say about 70% of the people who write to me are fifty and over, often MUCH over.I believe that marriage teaches men responsibility, structure, how to co-define reality, what women want and how to put someone else before themselves.I have giggled to myself and so very much appreciated the little things that divorced men I have dated have done for me.You double check your profile to see if there’s something you wrote that’s attracting these older men. If you’re 36, you’re pretty darned confused by these emails. By the time the kid is in high school, Dad will be 74! There’ll be fewer numbers, but at least you won’t be wasting your time. There are a lot of amazing ones out there and they are criminally underappreciated.By the time you have your first child, you’ll be 38 or 39. That’s not the kind of life you imagined for yourself or your children. Let’s just hope that they don’t discriminate against men their own age.
This question is exactly why I’m on a dating hiatus at the moment, since I just can’t bring myself to seek out a much older man, or play the cougar.
They seem to naturally have more of a routine and offer to do things that a lot of men who have never been married would not think to do for another person.
I have dated many single 40-year old men who are super set in their ways, while men who were married before seem to have a deeper understanding of taking care of a woman… [NOTE: if you’re ready to meet the man (divorced or otherwise) who is familiar with these little things, take the first step and try Meet Mindful for free today—the fastest growing dating site for conscious singles.] I openly share that I have chosen my career first and never wanted my own children.
In my 20s, almost all of my relationships failed because I chose not to have children of my own.
I understood and respected the fact that most men wanted children.Now you’re going to get the same song and dance as every other guy who has written to complain about women on the Internet. So let’s say you’re a 36-year-old woman, entering the prime of your life. Yeah, 45 is a little old, you say, but you want to be open-minded. It’s that you’re failing to recognize what most younger women want. At least you know that a woman on Millionaire Match might be more willing to sacrifice youth for security.