Black men wanted dating
"Thank you for being a demonstration, because I know there are hundreds of thousands of black men, all ages, who've had these experiences," she says.In the time since my appearance on BLE, I actually have taken Gil & company’s advice and now I’m a month into a happy relationship with my girlfriend Jacqueline.And black women in the general age bracket of most single blerd men are still in their “men are trash” phase and frankly guys like @____Panthe R ,@Theodore Fusion_ , Kriss from MTR Studios Podcast Network aren’t helping that end any time soon.Fact is, black men should view it more as exploring our options rather than as betraying black women.If anything, a white nerd girl would get you more than anyone else as most nerd circles in general don’t welcome women, and black nerd women get away with drinking “white women tears” but apparently misogynoir or whatever is different and worse because “the black woman is the most disrespected woman on the face of the earth.” No, this applied back when it was said.NOW it’s being co-opted by women who use it to excuse shit like the annoying thoughts and antics of people like Crissle from The Read.“The researchers realize that their results can be depressing, but they also agree with the many readers who caution against reading too much into the preferences of online daters and speed daters. I married a black man, who I am now (17 years later) divorcing, but the point is that I think the world is FULL of potential, why limit yourself?
It starts with your clothes, then what you listen to, then what you watch, before you know it, you’re a making your avi on social media be you with a flower crown and lip gloss and you’re on social media talking about how men are trash.The excuse they make is, “But black men never wanted me.” No…the black men YOU wanted didn’t want you. Face it, I have NEVER seen a blerd girl who said black dudes didn’t talk to her that either: A) lived in an area where there were almost no other black people or B) was holding out for a guy who clearly wasn’t into her to like her.The problem isn’t that it’s black women dating outside their race, the problem is that after a while you start to realize where your not wanted. Fact is, blerds are at a disadvantage as even the so called “pick mes” don’t want us as clearly we don’t fit their standards either.The other alternative is the more obvious one, but it’s also the one black nerds walk on eggshells dealing with.
The fact is that a great deal of black nerd women don’t date black men.Before everyone gets to mingle, three of the men meet with Iyanla to talk about why they avoid dating within their race.